Check out some empirical data first:

See:

Men, women report equal spousal violence rates - CBChttps://www.cbc.ca › news › canada › manitoba › men-...

Jan 21, 2016 — Canadian men report having been the victims of spousal violence with the same frequency as women..."

Or the work by feminist SFU criminologist Assistant Professor Alexandra Lysova:

Douglas Todd: Domestic abuse cuts differently for women and ...https://vancouversun.com › opinion › columnists › dou...

Jun 7, 2019 — Simon Fraser University criminologist Alexandra Lysova began to investigate spousal violence in her home city of Vladivostok, Russia...

Or the scholatically sound work of Prof. D. Dutton:

Rethinking Domestic Violence, By Donald G. Dutton - UBC ...https://www.ubcpress.ca › rethinking-domestic-violence

Ehor Boyanowski, Criminology, Simon Fraser University. Dutton's analysis of domestic violence research and discourse is comprehensive, refreshing..."